Fairness When You Hold the Advantage
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Therefore all things whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets.
Matthew 7:12 KJV
It is easy to ask for fairness when you have been overlooked. The harder test comes when the unfair arrangement benefits you. You may get the better place, the extra credit, or the chance to speak while someone else stays unheard.
Jesus tells us to treat others as we would want to be treated. That means looking at a situation from the other person's side before defending our advantage. You can name a teammate's contribution. You can let someone finish explaining. You can return something borrowed without waiting to be chased.
This command does not mean every person must make the same choice you would make. Listen to what would actually help them. Christian love takes another person's needs seriously instead of assuming our preferences fit everyone. A fair decision may leave you with less attention, but it leaves your conduct in better agreement with the Lord you say you follow.
Put the passage into practice
It is easy to measure relationships by what other people have done for you. Jesus directs attention toward the good you can do. Be fair with someone's work, respect private information, and include a person who lacks your social confidence. Consideration requires listening because people do not all want the same kind of help. The principle is active care for the neighbour, guided by truth, rather than waiting until kindness seems deserved or likely to be repaid.
Keep the passage in context
Jesus summarizes a duty toward others that agrees with the law and the prophets. The command calls for active love, not a bargain in which kindness is given only when it is returned.
Read further: Matthew 7 in the King James Bible.