Devotionals for Ages 10–14

A Joke Is Still a Choice

Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

Proverbs 18:21 KJV

Calling something a joke does not remove the purpose behind it. You may know exactly which remark will draw laughter at someone else's expense. The audience's response does not make the choice innocent.

Proverbs gives weight to speech because its effects are real. Words can damage trust, protect someone from error, encourage faithfulness, or spread a lie. They do not create events by magic, but they can change how people are treated.

Examine the humor you contribute. Refuse the joke that needs another person's humiliation to work. If you have hurt someone, apologize without asking them to prove they are less sensitive. Use the same creativity to encourage that you once used to get a laugh. A truthful, generous sentence can have a long life too.

Keep the passage in context

The proverb emphasizes the serious consequences of speech. Words can help or deeply harm. It does not teach that human speech has God's creative power or that saying something makes it happen.

Read further: Proverbs 18 in the King James Bible.