Kindness When Someone Is Unkind
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But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
Matthew 5:44 KJV
It is easier to be kind when the other person is already pleasant. Jesus calls His followers to a love that does not disappear whenever someone acts against them. Their conduct should reflect the Father rather than simply copy the treatment they receive.
You can refuse revenge while still telling the truth about mistreatment. If someone threatens, bullies, or harms you, seek help from a trusted adult. Loving a person does not mean agreeing with the wrong or giving unlimited access to hurt you again.
Pay attention to the choices that remain yours. Do not invent a rumor to pay back a rumor. Refuse the cruel nickname even if the person has used one against you. Let proper adults address serious conduct while you guard your own words and actions.
This kind of love requires the Lord's help. It is not a way to pretend that hurt is painless. It is a decision to obey Christ rather than let another person's sin become the rule for your own behavior. Truth, appropriate boundaries, and kindness can belong together.
Keep the passage in context
Jesus commands love toward enemies, challenging the habit of limiting kindness to people who treat us well. His instruction does not require concealing abuse or refusing appropriate protection.
Read further: Matthew 5 in the King James Bible.