Devotionals for Ages 10–14

Love in the Ordinary Response

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Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

1 Corinthians 13:4-5 KJV

Love is easy to claim when nothing inconvenient is happening. Its character becomes clearer when someone interrupts you, receives attention you wanted, or makes a mistake that affects your plans.

Paul describes patient, kind conduct that refuses pride and self-centeredness. This kind of love is active. It shapes the words you choose, the attention you give, and the way you respond when you are disappointed.

Choose one ordinary interaction in which to practice it today. Let someone finish speaking. Give credit honestly. Correct a mistake without making the person feel like a nuisance. You do not have to wait for a special occasion to begin treating people with Christian care.

Love does not require approving sin or remaining silent about danger. Truth and appropriate boundaries belong with kindness. The aim is to seek another person's good rather than simply protect your own comfort or reputation. Christ has shown us love at its fullest through His sacrifice for sinners. As believers, we depend upon His grace to live out that love in small responses as well as large acts of service. An ordinary conversation gives plenty of room to begin.

Keep the passage in context

Paul describes the character of love in a discussion of life and service within the church. Genuine love governs conduct rather than existing only as a warm feeling.

Read further: 1 Corinthians 13 in the King James Bible.